15ideas in our children's relationship with smart devices
Previously parental anxiety was in the number of hours a child spent on
television And today, parents are concerned about their children's attachment
to the screen of all kinds of telephone, computer, television, watch and other
devices, The rate at which studies and research advise any child under 2 years
of age should be prevented from handling devices and looking at screens strictly.
Because his brain is rapidly evolving in his early years, and his learning is
faster than communicating and dealing with people than with screens. A maximum
of two to six years of age cannot be seen in the screen one hour a day, Age
from six years to twelve years not exceeding two hours per day maximum The
child is older than twelve years. The less parents can reduce the rate of these
hours the better
But if you find out that your son is very connected to the screen, you
have to intervene and make laws and regulations so that he doesn't reach the
stage of addiction. Such as fixing a time of the day to be committed in dealing
with the device, If you ask for an increase, don't mind the requirement to
deduct from the weekly rate. Or ask him to carry out motor exercises, practical
activities or prayers before approving the increase, If he gets to the stage of
addiction, he has to be stopped and deprived, and in this case he will have a
wave of anger. And it may threaten not to go to school or other threats, but we
insist on our decision to prevent it and talk to it about the negatives of
addiction until we get to the normal rate using the screen, With the
introduction of alternative programs such as participating in the club,
strengthening the friendship side, social activities and so on
Another important thing to watch while using your children's screen is
the health aspect. Such as neck curvature and continuous looking and not
looking at the screen before bedtime or using the screen at food time in many
studies and research that this behavior is unhealthy and harmful, As well as
attention to the social and psychological aspect of the child is very
important, the child's use of the device may be motivated by impairment of his
personality, lack of confidence, escape from problems or communication with
others, Let's pay attention to the psychological and social aspects because a
child's continuity with a screen can increase their psycho-social problems, if
any. And by observing it you can identify health, social or psychological
negatives while dealing with the device, And you can check and learn about the
content that he deals with, maybe it's a game that has some kind of gambling or
pornographic sites and images, and in this case the role of parents is to guide
and guide the child
A smart solution to reduce connection to the screen is to stop
notifications that reach the subscriber in games and programs and transfer apps
from the home screen and place them in the rear screens, and schedule a day to
enter social networks and allocate half a day or full day of non-technology,
All these means make the child deal with devices correctly. Perhaps the most
important issue is that the parents lead by example to their children in using
the screen to be a model of balance and moderation.
This 15 is a preventive idea that helps parents to control the
relationship of the children with the screen. If the reader of the article has
taken control of his children and after reading the article he wants to apply
his thoughts, we advise him to sit with them first and explain the problem to
them and then start gradually dealing with them to get his children to the
stage of moderation
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